Glidden, 57, had led East Concord's cozy Grace Episcopal
Church for just over a year when he died suddenly last Sunday at
his Nashua home. Despite his short tenure, he'd already formed
close bonds with the congregation and the community. In April,
the church asked Glidden to stay for good, ending Grace's search
for a new vicar and satisfying his desire to return to the
pulpit full time.
"After waiting for the right time and the right place, he
really found it with the people of Grace Church and was really
rejoicing with that opportunity," said the Rev. Canon Tim Rich,
who works for the Episcopal Diocese of New Hampshire. "It's just
sad that it was so short-lived."
In the days since his death, parishioners have learned that
Glidden's time at Grace Church was the end of many decades spent
helping others learn, reason and reach their goals. Glidden
completed divinity school in 1980, but worked much of his
adult life as a teacher, most recently in the aviation program
at Daniel Webster College in Nashua.
There, he taught students how to fly, interpret weather
patterns and navigate the aviation industry. Shirley Phillips, a
professor at the school, recalls how students always remembered
what Glidden taught because he delivered information with humor
and, on at least one occasion, with kitchen utensils as props.
"I never met anyone who took his class and didn't walk away and
say, 'Wow I just learned so much from him,' " she said. "His
office was down at the end of the hall, and there was just
always a line there. It was students or faculty or colleagues
coming to seek his advice, or students coming back to the
college to visit. That's where they would stop."
Glidden and his wife, Jane, had no children of their own, but
they made young people a prominent part of their life, inviting
students, especially those from other countries, to their home
for holiday meals. Baking thrilled Glidden, and he would
sometimes host bread-making classes for students so they'd be
ready when they had kitchens of their own.
On Sundays, Glidden would serve as a substitute priest at
churches throughout the state. He came to Concord in January
2006 to help with services after Grace Church's previous pastor
left. His sermons were as popular as his lectures had been at
Daniel Webster.
"Did you ever go to church and think I'm looking forward to
the sermon?" said Warren Geissinger, a church member who lives
in Concord. "That's what we did. He has a way of enlightening
scripture, a way of storytelling."
Glidden helped the church, which is frequented by many
retirees, welcome younger families. Small children toddled
around during Sunday services and acolytes were never in short
supply. More times than not, the bread used at communion had
been baked by Glidden.
"He would have been a good fit for any congregation; he
embodied what the priesthood was," said Donna Muir, the church's
administrative assistant. "He really liked the intimacy (of a
small church.) He really liked to get to know the people one on
one."
Regulars at the Friendly Kitchen knew Glidden, too. Muir, who
is also the kitchen's executive director, remembers how he
passed out fresh-baked bread and pushed the boundaries of soup
kitchen cuisine.
"We have many good cooks at the kitchen," she said. "But
Scott always really wanted to create."
Glidden's funeral was to be held this morning in Nashua, but
his welcome letter remained on Grace Church's website. There,
Glidden describes his congregation: the "nonagenarian pushing
her walker adorned with Tibetan prayer flags," "the silence of
heads bowed in prayer, followed by energetic singing," and "the
exclamation of a four-year-old on his way back from communion:
'Dad, this is the best part!' "
About a month ago, Glidden brought a small herd of children
into the church kitchen to bake one of his famous loaves of
alter bread - whole wheat, with ¼ cup of honey - for an upcoming
baptism. Tiffany Dodd, a parishioner from Dunbarton, said it was
hard to tell who was having more fun, Glidden or the kids.
"He was so happy," she said. "He had flour everywhere. He let
the kids roll out the dough, put their fingers in it."
Dodd helped clean up and left with a copy of Glidden's
recipe. This week, she used it - along with his handwritten
notes in the margins - to bake bread for communion at Glidden's
funeral.